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  • suzwes
    suzwes Member Posts: 765

    Thanks ladies.  If it isn't better by tomorrow, I'll definitely go in.  It is much better today than it was yesterday so I'm keeping my fingers crossed. 

    That was a great observation Elimar.  Their hair styles are the same!

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    Hairstyles & smiles! Freaky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618

    Kleenex, you aren't playing a trick on us, are you?

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Holy crap! Chin line and cheek line too!!!!

  • CatbirdC
    CatbirdC Member Posts: 235

    Hi All,

    I used to be prone to UTI all the time.  And I hate cranberry juice.  LOL   So I went to Walmart, got a bottle of cranberry capsules and took 15 of them along with the over the counter uti med that makes orange tinkle.  CURED MYSELF.   LOL

    Ever since that I take ONE cranberry capsule a night and coincidence or not I've never had another one....UTI that is.    I did tell my doctor what I did much later.  He laughed and told me taking the cranberry capsules probably does help but he wouldn't o.k. 15 of them.

    CatbirdCool

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Member Posts: 7,925

    Along with Vit C, OJ, and cranberry juice for a UTI don't forget to drink a gallon of water a day.  That helps keeping things moving "downhill" from the kidneys and helps keep the nasty bugs from setting up shop int he kidneys.  It also washes out a lot of the bacteria before it gets a chance to attach to the bladder wall and start burrowing in. 

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    But be careful to make sure you are peeing enough out! You can get edema from your kidneys not being able to rid your body of all the fluid. It's a fine balance. I, personally, can't drink too much fluid or I start to swell. Found out last year I have kidney disease in my right kidney! Who'da thunk it?

  • suzwes
    suzwes Member Posts: 765

    Well, I broke down and stopped at the urgent care on my way home.  Pain got worse so that did it for me.  I've got my Cipro and my prescription strength pyridium and am ready to go.  I try to drink tons of water but today I had so many meetings that I didn't get to drink as much.  That did it for me.

    Barbe, it is a fine balance and so sorry you have kidney disease.  Not fun and Not fair!

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Member Posts: 1,477

    Are you guys saying i look like a cartoon character??? 

    well I have been told I sound like Lisa Simpson on the phone lol. 

     Soon I will be wearing a short dark brown wig . . .  

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    There's a post further up the page Carrol2 where you & Kleenex are right next to each other....check it out!

  • raeinnz
    raeinnz Member Posts: 553

    Carrol2 - love your sense of humour - you'd make a good Kiwi - take it on the chin and then give as good back!!

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Member Posts: 1,477
    eph3_12 i guess i sort of see it lol they captured my chipmunk cheeks
  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704
    I think you and Kleenex might be twins, separated at birth (It won't let me take the word off.  I was trying to post the little yellow face that says surprised but it will only print the word & won't put the picture there) Surprised
  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Member Posts: 1,477

    eph3-12 every once ina  blue moon someone tells me that i look like someone else. Very rarely though. Probably just the goofy pici posted. maybe I should steel kleeex's avatar. I wonder if she rally looks like me in person or if it's just that I am a cartoon character. I have been told that lol. I was super into powerpuff girls when it first came out.

    girl power! 

  • raeinnz
    raeinnz Member Posts: 553

    Years ago, when my brother got a new girlfriend, he said we looked so alike we could be twins and he obviously told her that too.  When we finally met we looked nothing like eachother apart from long dark hair.  He said 'well, it must be your personalities' - lame - cos we were nothing alike in that department either - she got on with him, I didn't! - men!!

  • gingersfavorite1
    gingersfavorite1 Member Posts: 134

    well good morning  (2 a.m.)  ladies - UGH!

    Think perhaps my onc. might reduce the steroids for me next time?!   Grrr....

    I went to bed just before 10, got up to tinkle a little after 1 and could not go back to sleep.   Within half an hour felt wide awake and decided to get up.

    We'll see if I can be productive, do some of my paperwork that needs done today ..... and perhaps get a little more shut-eye on the couch before actually starting my day (?) 

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618

    2 am here, although two hours after you.  We're heading to AZ in about an hour, after we down a couple cups of coffee.  Hope you are getting some more rest Stephanie.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,886

    Meece, you brought it up, so why are you headed to AZ at 3 a.m.?

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    On the subject of sleep...   I feel it is at the root of all health, don't you?  I don't think I've slept thru' the night for 30 years, and it's not all bathroom break either.  Is it one of the by-products of middle age?  I did hear that our melatonin production decreases with age.  I can use a supplement and I will still not last the whole night.  Do ANY of you Middies out there get 6-8 hours of sleep with no waking in the middle?  Or does a 40+ woman sleeping thru' the night fall into the same category as leprechauns, mermaids, and unicorns?

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    I'm lucky that I LOVE to read. So I keep a clip-on light on all night usually. My DH wears eye shades and I read until I fall asleep. I let the book lie on my chest. Then when pain or pee wakes me up, I continue reading. Repeat.

    Very rarely I will turn the light off, but then usually turn it back on to go pee. Sigh.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Ya, ya, I know right now someone is typing that night light can cause breast cancer. TA DA!!!!!

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    Well Elimar-I for one, am not mythical!  I am very real & I wake up every night, several times a night.  I don't necessarily get up, but I wake up!  I hate it.  I want to sleep long stretches at a time because I love to sleep.  It's distressing to continually wake up.

    I love our rowing on the river, garden party picture at the top of the thread. I remember that day.  Barbe, Meece & I were racing little sailboats on the other side of the bridge when this was taken I believe.

  • suzwes
    suzwes Member Posts: 765

    I hope Joni, Meece and Barbe will invite me to the next garden party - maybe I did attend this one though, I think that's me, the one standing on the bridge watching the boats row under!

    I rarely sleep through the night anymore.  I either just wake up or have to get up to pee.  The last few evenings that was many times. I take a melatonin every evening and half of the evenings I have help falling asleep from Mr. Benedryl.  He's wonderful.  Helps my allergies too.  Since beginning my antibiotic yesterday I didn't get up once last night, and got a full 7 hours of sleep!  Yippee.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    One melatonin won't do anything. I used to get the big bottle from Walmart with the little, itty, bitty pills. I took 6 a night. Was a good sleep. Why did I stop? Anyone read a post from me way back as to why I stopped? Can you remind me? heheheheheehheeh

    I take 13 prescription pills a day now, maybe it was just that I didn't want to take 6 more? Undecided

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,886

    The topic right now is SLEEP (and whether, as Middies, we can ever get a decent amount.) but a a public service to this thread, I have to report on Chester's Puffcorn, which piqued our interest on an earlier page. 

    Here's the not-so-skinny on them, or perhaps I should say the Good, the Bad and the Ugly:  They have a texture that is a cross between a cotton ball and a eucharist wafer.  (Mmm, that's good.)   They are not as "dangerously cheesy" compared with Crunchy Cheetos, and I like danger.  (So, that's bad.)  I still managed to eat half a bag.  (That's Ugly.)

    The nutritional comparison is:  Same calories in both of them (that's good) but one more gram of fat in the Puffcorn (bad) only it's not the bad fat apparently because the Puffcorn actually had .5 grams less saturated fat (so, good again.)   Overall, they are virtually the same.  So, I've just found another snack food that has the potential to make my clothing fit too tight (and that's not pretty!)

    Now, back to our regularly scheduled topic of sleep...

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Member Posts: 7,925

    The only time I sleep through the night since Jan 2007 is when I have serious chemical assistance.  Even with xanax and 20 mg of melatonin I will wake up after a couple of hours and have a hard time going back to sleep.  Or else I can't get to sleep for hours and hours, then am blissfully asleep when the alarm goes off.  Yuck. 

  • PauldingMom
    PauldingMom Member Posts: 392

    Thanks for the review Elimar. Actually they sound pretty good, but this is coming from someone who spent most of the night hugging the potty.  TMI

    Okay, I got some new news. Did everyone except me know that Chemo. and Radiation can cause your nerves to be like sun burnt skin, very sensitive to the touch?  This is what the surgeon told me yesterday when I had my epidural done. He was a little upset that his associates in his group or any of my other doctors hadn't picked up on this earlier. Anyways, everything went great and I have found myself a new doctor who seems to know what going on. The medicine made me sick to my tummy but that has passed and I am now walking like a 47 year old woman and not a 102 year old one. Thank you all for your well wishes and concerns.

    Oh, I haven't had a UTI since I was in my 20's, so I can't help you there. And I usually get up twice at night to pee pee, but I also take a water bottle to bed with me and drink during the night. 

  • dawney
    dawney Member Posts: 136

    I very rarely sleep through the night.  If I pee right before bed I usually don't have to get up and pee but I wake up all during the night - ugh!!!

    I had to start wearing my wig today.  I don't get my head shaved til Saturday but my hair is falling out in clumps and there was no way I was gonna be able to style it.  I had to take it off twice and put it back on because it was sliding off the back.  How do you keep a wig on a bald head? 

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    dawney, I can't answer that question because I never ended up wearing my wig.  I just wore scarves, hats, & went commando!

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Member Posts: 1,477

    Ok I usually sleep pretty well but i do wake up to pee once or twice. I have this odd bladder problem where it never seems to empty and without meds I would be peeing every hour 24/7. So i take two pills at bedtime and that probably helps me sleep as well as to empty all the way before bed. Luckily I can still take them with all the chemo stuff.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,886

    Well, so far there is not a one who has yet posted that they can get 6-8 hours of uninterupted sleep...naturally that is.  Was it really that much to hope for?

    Welcome  dawney!  Can't give you any wig tips myself, but I hope someone here has some for you. Carrol2 is starting her chemo soon, you are just a bit ahead of her and she has a wig-in-waiting.  I did hear that the wigs are hot in summer, so you ladies missed the joy of all that, at least.