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  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited October 2012

    You two look like you are having a great time together :-)

    Kate - that sounds interesting, I wonder why I never get invited to bc conferences :-( lol Good to hear you had a good time in the big smoke.

    I picked up my new lens yesterday! Exciting, now using it to snap anything that moves, and lots of things that don't lol.

    When I was driving into work this morning I was making a mental list of my camera gear as insurance has to be updated, and realised that my gear is worth more than my car! lol mind you my car isn't worth much these days, but still ... :-)

    Have a great one everyone

    Trish

    xoxo

  • racy
    racy Member Posts: 976
    edited October 2012

    Trish, please post your weight loss secrets! I need inspiration to lose 3kg asap!

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited October 2012

    Its a lovely photo ladies, hope you are enjoying yr selves. take care. i sent a photo of that giant weta to my sister and i got EWWWW, its big and ugly. she not keen on wetas. thought she may want to see what a real one looks like, not piddly nz ones.  anyway have a good day.

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited October 2012

    Racy, I basically ate less lol sorry - no great secret.  As I lost more weight and after being off Arimidex I had more energy so was able to start exercising.  Nothing radical, I mainly started using my WiiFit that had been sitting gathering dust since the bc dx.

    So, eat less, cut out biscuits, chocolate and all the other yummy things.  I have skim milk not full cream, low fat yoghurt, very little cheese these days and I ate a lot of Lean Cuisines for the first few months until I got used to the smaller portion size.

    Typical eating diary for me now is:

    Breakfast

    Special K cereal with low fat vanilla yogurt and skim milk

    Lunch

    Small breadroll - no butter or marg - with some sort of cold meat (usually I do a corned beef in the slow cooker on a weekend and have the leftovers on my bun for lunch) I put homemade chutney on the breadroll with the meat.

    Dinner 

    Lean Cuisine or small portion of homemade stir fry with boiled rice, small piece of pork, grilled with salad.

    You get the picture.  I now have two Tim Tams at night with my cuppa and usually have a couple of mandarines and a banana (small) during the day.

    Now I exercise most days for around half an hour.

    Good luck!
    Trish

    xoxo

  • racy
    racy Member Posts: 976
    edited October 2012

    Thanks Trish! That is amazing. My diet is quite lean, in theory. I think exercise is key. Good on you!

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited October 2012

    Hello Girls. hope everybosy doing ok today, It is windy again today, gosh that is so annoying. But never mind. Got abit of a shock this morning, we en-listed with work and income to see if they had anybody on their books  that would be employable to us. They said, they would send details thru the email and we would decide if they would be suitable. well this morning i got a text saying, he had been given my address and turns up at my house, private dwelling and starts questioning me about the job. i was  shocked, as i was not expecting that to happen, i took his details, and tho i aplaud him getting out there for a job, i am shocked that he was given my  address.  My mind did a blank as i think i went into shock abit. no warning that this could be happening. i was trying to read the job listing and could not read, or did not click for a minute as i have advertised my self again and was already setting up interviews, but this threw me right off.  i rang them up and asked why  he got my address.  and who gave it to  him.  i felt  abit bad incase  i over reacted. but he knows now where i live, if we dont give him the job, am i going to get hassled. we have had phone  abuse last time with texts and phone calls from a person. so anyway  wrk and income looking into it, they were livid. see what happens from there.

    Take care girls.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Wow Midnight! That's really scary! I'm with you on being very angry and I sure wouldn't apologise for feeling that way. I hope they get to the bottom of how it happened.



    Just relaxing today, DH has gone off to the city and the weather has turned cool again so it's a good day just to veg.



    Have a good day all.



    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • midnight1327
    midnight1327 Member Posts: 1,331
    edited October 2012

    I have had no calls yet from work and income regarding this incident. so they must be sorting something. BIL said,  Don't  get too stressed about it, it is just a minor error, i told him to take a running jump, he would not like ike it if they came on his property, he would be the first to moan.  i said this has left me open to being abused and compromised my saftey as i am home a lot on my own when hubby working. mind you i have 3 dogs, one at one door, one at the other and one in the middle and they all did there balls when he was here, even the one who hardly barks, he was shifty and he kept looking at the dog at the front too, and  my shihtzu inside, but she would be putty in their hands, the lab/rotty would be different  and the boarder collie would smile at him, he does that, lift his top lip up and smiles, esp dinner time. its hard case. but  still its good to have them  there. i was just  annoyed that my privacy was breached. we do the interviewa at another venue to avoid that happening.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Aly sure hope you have enjoyed your stay in Aus and hope you have a relaxing flight home tomorrow!! I sure enjoyed your company while you were here!



    Live n hugs. Chrissy

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited October 2012

    Chrissy - what date are you coming to Brissy - I need to apply for leave.

    Not sure I want to go out at night though - I might be the party pooper.

    MRI tomorrow - not looking forward to it at all - the cost mainly. $706 this year. Wish me luck.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Sue I will be heading your way on Thursday 6th Dec but can do the Friday if you want. I've organized to stay with my niece on Sunday and Monday so I can take advantage of the cheaper fare......besides its a good opportunity to catch up with them while I'm there. Time is getting closer and my excitement is building!!



    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited October 2012

    What time do you arrive on Thursday?

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    It's early but I don't expect you to take the day off. I was intending to check out the city and meet up with you later.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    After work.



    That was an oops!.....lol.....hit post too quickly.......lol

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737
    edited October 2012

    Just a quick post from the airport. Had the most wonderful time in Australia and especially with Chrissy. Wish the whole thing could have been longer. Do hope you are resting Chris.

    Will post photos and comments once I get back home. (And after the birthday party, DGD is having her 4 year old party tomorrow, birthday is Monday.)

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited October 2012

    OMG Midnight - your story sounds horrible - hope they sort it out for you xoxo

    Ok girls, I've called a few hotels in Brissy - Oaks on Margaret is $316 per night for 2 bed apt, so that's just over $200 each for the two nights.  Oaks on Charlotte is $309 per night - so very similar Festival and M on Mary don't have rooms available (well one of them does but at over $600 per night!!)

    So Kate and Linda I need your go ahead to book - probably Oaks on Charlotte as Racy says that one's "closer to the action" lol


    Trish

    xoxo

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited October 2012

    Ok Chrissy - I usually come home form work at 4, so you could meet me at work and the bus is right outside the building.

    Just got home from my MRI - ALL CLEAR!!!

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Member Posts: 1,661
    edited October 2012

    Sue - that's great news!! yay for you!

    Further to my post above, I've found that the prices on the web are slightly lower than what I've been quoted, about $30 per night ??!!

    Also found Evolution Appartments and their web price is $259, so even cheaper, but not sure if the location is as good?


    Trish

    xoxo

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Yay Sue!!! Great news on your MRI!!!! Now you can relax and breathe. Super idea about meeting you at your work so I'll get proper details closer to the day. I'm planning on bringing just a backpack so I won't have any heavy luggage.



    Ali yup I'm relaxing.......lol. Almost finished that shawl I was working on so you know what was working and it wasn't much......lol. How you had a good flight and rest well in your own bed tonight. Enjoy the party tomorrow!!



    Love n hugs all! Chrissy

  • Kate60
    Kate60 Member Posts: 523
    edited October 2012

    Hi Girls. Trisha you have my green light to book whatever you choose. I had a wonderful couple of days away with Paul down at Margaret River. We drove around a fair bit yesterday, visited a few wineries and a couple of breweries, and of course some shops. I went to my favourite store where they make all sorts of jams, pickled products and oils and a whole heap of other stuff. I particularly love their garlic olive oil, which is just to die for if you like strong garlic, like I do. So I bought two bottles.

    Back home now and Paul is connecting the hose to drain our pool. I hope we don't find a dead body in the bottom of it, can't tell at this stage, it is what you would call moldy pond green! Hey just wondering if aching archilles tendons could be from Herceptin, I'm guessing probably not, but I am having terrible problems walking and I shuffle a fair bit. It's OK once I get warmed up, but just sitting for 10 minutes means I will shuffle for another ten at least. The alternative is old age! The tendons feel very tender to touch. Oh and another thing post chemo, I now have a severe reaction to mozzie bites, I get a big lump and then it ulcerates, one in particular is badly infected, red circumference of about 4 inches and a horrible weeping pus centre. I went to the chemist yesterday and the Chemist said he usually only sees a reaction like this with newly arrived Brits who've never been bitten before. But I reckon my immune system has been compromised since having chemo. My legs are terrible with about a dozen horrible weepy sores.

    Hope everyone is well. xxxxxx

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Oh Kate you poor thing!! Mozzy bites are the pits but to have them do that is just awful! Hope they heal soon! It will take sometime for your immune system to recover but it's also possible that it will never be quite what is was.



    Glad you had a good time away with Paul.



    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited October 2012

    Chrissy - I'm right in the middle of town opposite the post office, so it's nice and central for you to find.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 1,422
    edited October 2012

    Jenn - how are the news boobs going? Has the size come down at all? I was thinking of you today while I was talking to a lady at the Wesley.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Oh cool! I sure wont have any hassle finding you then. I'm so looking forward to December!



    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • Jennt28
    Jennt28 Member Posts: 1,095
    edited October 2012

    Yay Susie for clear results!



    Boo Kate for bug bites :-/



    Did my first day back working today. Of course I did it from the comfort of sitting on my fat ass on my bed all day. Taking calls, checking emails and doing data checking mostly. I am due to actually go into work and sit at my desk all day on Monday...



    I am exactly in the condition my PS told me I would be in. Feel good after getting out of bed in the morning - all slim and energetic. Then gradually through the day my abdomen starts swelling and by this time in the evening it is swollen and hard as concrete, and VERY uncomfortable. I'm at exactly week 4 today. At least another 2-3 weeks like this I guess.



    Size has not changed noticeably but I am getting used to them and am not sure I really want to go through the hassle of having them reduced. My appt back with the PS is now mid-Feb and it is at that point I have to tell him if I want an extra surgery to do a reduction, or just move straight to the nipple reconstruction.



    Am now 2 weeks back into taking the Tamoxifen and have put back 2kgs in weight in that time (after losing 4kgs with this surgery). The creeping weight gain is what is depressing me right now. What a crock, when I have been making so many healthy choices and reducing portion sizes. I used to be a Weight Watchers leader and area coordinator, so I know that what I'm doing is right - my body and these drugs are screwing with me though.



    Kylie - if you are reading - I have been thinking of you and am missing your input here...????



    Jenn

  • Linda1966
    Linda1966 Member Posts: 441
    edited October 2012

    http://www.booking.com/hotel/au/oaks-casino-towers.en-gb.html?aid=306395;label=au-brisbane-PjkqhRgvVpvDo84L4cHs3AS12915472349%3Apl%3Ata%3Ap1175%3Ap2%3Aac%3Aap1t1%3Aneg;sid=112b7917348864d07aa2827e8589200f;dcid=1;checkin=2012-12-06;checkout=2012-12-08;srfid=1c584b6fa13c6e8fddab1ef56f55937dX5 is for oaks casino which is $588 for the 2 nights. Also saw Meriton but I think oaks is cheaper.

    Im happy with around $100 per night each if you other ladies are.

    Thanks for doing all this work mate, its much appreciated. My shop is pandemonium at the moment and i barely have a minute to myself.

  • Linda1966
    Linda1966 Member Posts: 441
    edited October 2012

    http://au.news.yahoo.com/a/-/latest/15230127/doctors-regrow-breasts-in-cancer-sufferer/

    This sounds like  another step in the right direction ladies though one would want some sort of reassurance onthe odds of BC recurrance using ones own fat cells.

  • aussie12
    aussie12 Member Posts: 421
    edited October 2012

    Hi all

    How long do you all think it takes to stop thinking about breast cancer ? I was diognosed in Feb this year and have been told and think that I need to have other interests in my life, eg thinking about cancer too much gets me depressed sometimes. I've still got recon to go so it's hard not to think about it. I'm probably going to see a physchologist soon to talk about it all. In the meantime I just need a bit more energy to try and do other stuff. Are you all obssesed whenever you hear the words "Breast Cancer" on the news etc? Do you want to know everything about it?

    Hope that everyone has a good weekend

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438
    edited October 2012

    Hi Aussie. I think for the first year or so we all obsess about BC and anything to do with BC so you are not alone. It obviously makes you feel depressed so I would say you are doing the right thing by going to see a psychologist to get some help but take it from me that once you are done with all the treatment and your recon and have healed physically you will find that you will be able to move on emotionally.



    Take a deep breath and know that we are always here to talk to.



    Love n hugs. Chrissy

  • aussie12
    aussie12 Member Posts: 421
    edited October 2012

    Thanks Chrissy

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