Single life after a mastectomy
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Hi ladies- back from music. Great time today and our group included an electric violin. I have one but don't play it well, so it was nice to hear someone who does. This other guy who plays the keyboards was doing all kinds different stuff today from making it sound like a hammond b3 organ to the vibes. Some times the jam sessions are just awesome like that. Today we had a good groove going.
June- I was in Athens about 20 years ago. You are going to love Greece, really easy to travel there, people really enjoy life. Take in all the sights and do your shopping in the plaka where they sell everything. Be prepared to barter as they expect it and like it too!
Lili- I am sorry about your fall and hope you are doing better. France and Italy are great places to visit. Been to France once and did a week in Paris with my mom (and with support of the cousin that lives there). I took the train down to Monte Carlo to pick up a cruise there and saw the french country side, which is beautiful. As well as the Riviera. You will have many choices to do in France.
Italy 2X, first time with stops on the same cruise to Rome and Sicily. Second time for 2 weeks in Tuscany, one of my FAVORITE places anywhere and Florence is just beautiful beyond belief.
Viv- your trip around the country sounds great. I like your idea of doing smaller in things in the meantime with your family. Going to a museum is always a treat to me.
I don't have the desire to do any more international travel right now (perhaps I need more time and space from all that has happened). But if I were to go abroad again, the places I have always wanted to go to include Brazil, Morocco, Istanbul, Ireland, and Croatia. One of my friends. and I are actually talking about the Croatia trip in the next few years.
BB- what is on your bucket list? Have we seen that yet? And Milky too?
Enerva- I like how you outed all the newbees here. You rock!
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ha ha ha too funny, Piper this is the first time I hear you vent ha ha ha good for you girl let it out. Have your well deserved beer lol
I had my salad turned out good or I was really hungry lol
I ll have a nap now or just be in my bed Cuz pain is back
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ha ha ha Bb one thing is for sure I will come for a Usa trip and I am going to meet you one day we will sit, eat drink and have a blast
Here I am in my bed I am so glad we have each other at least someone at the other end to chat.
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Enerva- I would be interested to know that too. I never thought you could move and stay anywhere unless you were going to school there or had a job with a company there (or say your company moves you overseas)?
If I win the Powerball, I am retiring to Tuscany, Italy and buying an old villa so I really need to know how to do this!
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LOl, BB, you can have your winters, The only time I like a snow storm is when I am off from work. As that is a rarity...You can consider once a year as my total.
And yes after being harangued by that weirdo guy, even my neighbor was frightened while rescuing me........I am cranky. $40 for a long morning/early afternoon....
Although I am treating myself to a warm bath and a mug of beer.
Yes, after being catcalled by that other weirdo...I decided to take my butt indoors.
The temp fell about 14 degrees in less than 2 hours.....
I was dripping sweat prior to the temp fall....
cranky, pm-sing piper
Listening to DMB, John Mayer, The Fray, Maroon 5, The Script, Coldplay, 5 doors down and whatever else comes across Pandora at this moment
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BB, u are beautiful girl.
As per going to another country all you need is to go as a tourist find a job and apply for work permit then a layer can arrange for residence application and so it's a bit of legal work but it's possible.
Well my Channing tatun I thinking has a new movie I must watch lol
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LOL! BB, you slut...And here I thought I was the threads resident whore...
Darn. I cannot win today
you are def cut off from Brody and I don't need a pretty face to date.
Just some respect and understanding
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Piper- ugh, I forgot about weird men who come to yard sales. Food for thought for my event next weekend. Hope the bath and beer are good.
Electric violin rocks! I love Jean Luc Ponty and he is teaming up with Jon Anderson from Yes to do a new album and concert up in Aspen next year. Me thinks I might have to go up for that!
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I saw your post BB. At least I think I kept up. You do not need to get fixed for us to like you. I know the feeling of thinking if I just do this and that before I an ready to face the world...the people........in the end...I personally would be waiting forever ......so little by little I keep going forward hoping people will except me as I am and if not......move on
as hard as that is to do......
luv u
xoxoxoxo
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A fellow I know here in the music community who plays some kickin' electric violin.
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lol no bb, you are beautiful and not need for fixing your face as soon as all the SE go away your skin will be radiant again, your hair will grow long again and you will love yourself again.
so will him and any good man who meets you. Well I watch a movie called a dark truth and it was all about a big company which privatized water in Ecuador and git lots of innocent people killed and I have no idea if it's based on a true history. But I want to get it on dvd so my bro in law can watch lol he works for a big water company and they always try to make water private in Canada but Canadians are no interested so no contract with that particular company.
I am ready to shower and watch another movie cuz i am not sleepy at all lol
Thanks for the video bb, Jazz
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BB- I think your heart is still broken by the man that left you. But I understand that too. Time will heal that and you will find another who won't leave you.
Beautiful day here today. Just came in from a lovely evening walk. Going to do a bit more work on the house and then go to bed. I am pushing to get this house stuff as done as possible so I can focus on the professional things this week.
Good night friends!
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I do not really like Bon Iver. But haven't listened to much of their stuff. Guess what little I heard I wasn't pressed to listen to more.
I did look at the Firefly festival this year. But too far away-too many days to get off work etc.
Guess that is why the local Blues Fest works for me. Not too far away and always good local and national acts. They do have The Mellon Jazz fest too. For some reason I have been missing out on it in recent years due to my work schedule.
Up way to early this morning. It is pleasantly cool and clear. Good day for the Season Opener!!!!
1pm kick-off
Go Stillers!
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Been working on my house and finally have one room completely finished. This is my dining room.
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Thank you. I really love buddhas. I have them all over this house, in every room. Male versions, female versions, garden versions too.
I am watching Moulon Rouge while I work on the bedroom. Have ever seen this movie? With Nicole Kidmann and Ewan McGregor (hottie). I actually have the DVD somewhere, I love this movie and if you have never seen it, worth renting.
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New buddha picture and new buddha statue. It's all about the buddha right now.
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It is a actually a musical movie and pretty good too! Came out maybe 10 or so years ago. I ended up with the CD from it too, the music is really amazing and includes a lot of well known musicians today like Pink, Christina Aguilar, and more.
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Nice pictures and dinning area jazz,
Hope allocating a great Sunday I had my girlfriend cane for a visit she actually rode her bike lol so cool and she came to the underground to check out my bike lol
I can't wait to go riding with her. It's so funny we met 7 years ago wile we used to take the go train at 5:42 am to go to work and I was getting my motorcycle licences atvthe time, she used to laugh at me say how that was something she couldn't do bla bla bla she got separated and then 6 months later she met a new guy, and guess what he is a Harley rider lol they got married and he made her getting riding she got her license last year and he bought her a bike for valentine lol all that went on wile I was going through bc so I had not idea. Then I contacted her 2 months ago and meet up with them and she is the lady who picked me up from the hospital lol I asked her if I could share her pictures here and she is ok so I will show hereto you then I will delete later
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BB- many people are on a life long search for some sort of spiritual meaning in their lives. There are many aspects of Buddhism that I like including meditation, mindfulness, etc. I grew up in a christian church back east, but had experiences in my youth and young adulthood that just told me organized religion was not for me. I consider myself spiritual but not religious. I do a lot of yoga and Buddhism is woven all through the yoga practice.
Your ex may have been interested in this all along and perhaps you never knew or perhaps he discovered it afterwards. A lot of buddists shave their heads too. And perhaps learning this shows you how different you are these days and that is not the person you once knew. That has usually been my experience with men from the past, they have just moved in different directions from the time we were together.
Going to park this house stuff and go swim. I hope you can get out and enjoy a walk or something today BB!
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wait I miss it lol
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BB - don't feel bad....ppl always look for something spiritual / meaningful in life. i wonder that myself sometimes...a lot lately. just the fact that get up and go to bed, repeatedly and you got to ask yourself why the heck i am doing this....
Buddhism is pretty deep (to me at least)...and it takes a lot to actually practice it. it's really a "let go" attitude towards life.....
(((hugs)))
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what happened??
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bb, I have not clue lol never saw Ur post lol
I called u left u a msg
Let me know if u want to talk
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ok so the ex got in touch with you after you sent the email? And he said he became a religious guy now? Lol
I am shock too wow
I was just thinking like jazz maybe now u see how different he is from what or who you thought he was.
Wow I have no real thoughts on this
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OMG ha ha ha girl that is so unreal
Well now try not to over think it cuz it will drive u nuts.
As per me I am not religious now, believe in me and only me lol
😁
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what? Lol how is it we are not real?
Ha ha ha
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BB, I didn't even know you had a sister lol I guess I forgot? You don't mention her much.
MILKY were are you? U ok?
bb, I can assure you we are real lol
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BB- we are not real?
I think there are plenty of folks on this site that are plenty real, but am aware of another thread where someone got kicked off because the person was asking people to send money for funeral services for a woman who passed from BC. None of us even knew this woman from our thread. I suspected the person was a scam artist trying to prey on the compassion of women towards a sister with bc by trying people to send cash somewhere. I was never asked, but others gave me the heads up. I distanced myself from that thread for a bit and it all went away and is okay there now.
I don't really talk that much about this site. If I were to tell people, they would do the usual "but you are done with treatment now, why do you need that?" We just cannot make people understand this journey, anymore than I can understand other things people go through. Including thinking about dating post BC.
Went to the pool and am the better for it. Tomorrow I begin working with the personal trainer to get my butt in shape and loose some weight.
I must get to some end of the weekend things. I will be a bit of the radar this week with the conference and a bunch of other things going on. Will come up for air when I can, but do wish everyone a good week!
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Enerva had busy weekend one of my cousin is on chemo i went to see her coz i was not here last 20 days.grocery and school supplies .
I hope you are feeling better.
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milky I am sorry your cousin is having chemo. I am glad you are still here. It's 1am I ll try to sleep now
Good night
Bb, hope you feel better, I know you are upset about your ex but try to let go n focus on you now
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