STFU (Shut the F*** UP)

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  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited June 2014

    I'm in your pocket Wren - Breathe - 

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  • juliaanna
    juliaanna Member Posts: 575
    edited June 2014

    Di-In your pocket.

    Shells, Hope you get well soon.

    My tests were negative cancer markers- Yeah!!  Two years NED.  Dexascan shows beginnings of osteopenia.  I'm a bit confused as my MO's office called and said the scan was fine.  PCP called and said add some calcium and weight bearing exercise.

    Karma came to the gal who "got me fired"- she got fired last week.  Still looking for work but not too aggressively as we have a family vacation planned the first two weeks of July.  

    I keep all of you close to my heart.  Take care.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 4,860
    edited June 2014

    Di - in your pocket!!  Also, hate to be stupid but what is MDS?

  • juliaanna
    juliaanna Member Posts: 575
    edited June 2014

    GG- MDS is myelodysplastic syndrome.  "A type of cancer in which bone marrow does not make enough healthy blood cells...."

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 4,860
    edited June 2014

    Thanks, Julianna.  Di - bestest good thoughts for you.


     

  • shellshine
    shellshine Member Posts: 930
    edited June 2014

    Juliette i'm so sorry you lost your job. Do you have severance pay or unemployment? I have been MIA and didn't know. How is DH's eyesight? I hope you are doing ok.

    As you know, my job was eliminated at Kaiser Hawaii almost 2 years ago and I was devastated. I was dedicated, at the top of my pay scale, top vacation earnings, loads of accumulated sick time, looking at about 5 more years before retirement, then BOOM - we don't need you anymore. Talk about shock, I walked around in a daze, cried for weeks. Then, what the hell, went back to school, got breast cancer, being home so much had to confront the reality of DH's alcoholism.....what a wild year that was!!

    Well, looking back, I'm in a much better place. I loved school. I handled BC.

    It was hard work, but I was able to confront the demons in my marriage and support my DH to get the help he needed. His bravery and commitment blows me away.

    I love the job I have now. Will I be doing this forever? No, but I'm where I'm supposed to be.

    Looking back, I'm glad I'm out of there.

    My advice is: Enjoy your time off. This time is precious - don't waste it!!

    Michelle

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited June 2014

    I thought I would bring smiles this morning. Through this horrid disease, I have found family has been my saving grace.  I found a picture of the Gkids that the smiles just bring me a sense of peace.  I just wanted to try to bring a little smile for you all suffering..

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    PS  the GS's mommy is a photographer and does this for me every year.  My granddaughter only gets to visit once a year and so she only sees her cousins when I take her over to see them.  Wish she lived closer but when I have her for a week, I make sure she gets enough love to hold over for another year.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    wow so much goin on here

    I read everything but I can't remember everything 

    So here is wishing all that needs prayers and some good luck

    Have I told u lately how much I hate this damn disease?

    Well I hate,hate,hate it

    GmaF those kids bring a smile to my face

    I'll be back

    Hugggggs to all my sistas

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited June 2014

    so cute GMA and yes they brought a smile to my face...  How are you doing?

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited June 2014

    Crog I posted this on a couple of other threads yesterday :

    This is what I wrote this morning on an LE thread: I went to the acupuncturist yesterday and I managed to lose 4 lbs over night! I told her I was a bit swollen and uncomfortable from my trip. She tried some "lymph" points and "circulation" points. I feel great this morning and first day in a long time - the breast nerve pain isn't shooting. Haven't had any pain meds this morning. Took a month, but my body is starting to respond and no extra swell from it, rather less swell. (PS - she isn't treating the LE, she is trying to work around it).

    It lasted about 2 hours then pain came back but doing ok.

    Today, I'm doing ok again.  The pain level is about a 2 unless you touch the area then it jumps to a 5/6.  I am going to test it out this week and start walking again to see how it reacts.  Acupuncturist reminds me that just being at the point of "thinking" about doing things, I am also at the point of doing things.  She sees that as progress because even when I overdue and hurt, it is better than constant pain and being a couch potato.  

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited June 2014

    sounds  promising GMA.  😊. Glad you have finally found something that is helping you.  I am still waiting to hear from the pain management place.  

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited June 2014

    I'm very sad today - can't stop crying.  One of our Workmates was in a fatal car crash.  It was the founder of the company's son.. I have no words.  

  • wren44
    wren44 Member Posts: 7,928
    edited June 2014

    Hugs Gma. That's a sad happening for sure.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 4,860
    edited June 2014

    Oh Gma, so terribly sorry to hear that.  So very sad

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    oh crap GmaF

    Now that ur feelin betta u get kicked in the face once again

    I'm so sorry for all that ur goin throu

    Prayers for the family and u

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited June 2014

    so sorry to read this ((((GMA))))

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 1,983
    edited June 2014

    (((((G'ma Foley)))) so sorry hon...really stinks!

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited June 2014

    damn......lost you guys again out of my favorites..................WTH............I'm back......must catch up.................

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    GmaF where r u? 

    I sent her a pm a few days ago and I have not heard back

    Prayin for u sista

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    I just checked

    She posted today

    Got me scared for a moment there

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978
    edited June 2014

    Sorry  Ladies - didn't mean to worry you.  Just haven't been on..

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    come on GmaF

    We need to give u some 

    HUGGGGGGGGGS

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited June 2014

    gma.........new thread........come and join the fun........its called The Way We Were........no need to explain, just searh the name...............your gonna love it.....looking forward to seeing "how you were"........hugs.............promise........it will make you smile.........

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    did u start it yet?

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited June 2014

    Yes.........gma already posted........itts called The Way We Were.............search it.........so far the response is great......they love it.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited June 2014

    I'm havin problems gettin on these threads

    One minut I'm on and the next min.it doesn't exist 

    Anyone else????.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 4,860
    edited June 2014

    yeah - everything is messed up.


     

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited June 2014

    oh glad it's not just me...  

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737
    edited June 2014

    Most threads are being very strange.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited June 2014

    So far no problem, but sure if its happening, it will happen to me sooner or later....