Thin Slices of Joy

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  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 2,311
    edited April 2020

    He's better!! Fever gone! Phew. Very grateful.

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Woohoo! ThumbsUp

  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    Serenity, certainly “ain’t no sunshine” right this moment. RIP Bill Withers.

  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    santabarbarian, what great news!!!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Yogatyme - so true :(

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    I'm teetering between Learning and Growth with a few spurts of anger when I see injustice and greed.

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  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    This always speaks to me...

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 2,311
    edited April 2020

    Brene Brown is so great.

    My Dad's situation has dipped. He's not feverish anymore, but he is 92 and seems to be in the process of passing away. He has zero appetite and now orange juice is too "thick" for him so that seems to be him shutting down. Could have been one last rally when he kicked the fever. The day the fever broke he accepted one piece of bacon (I'd been urging him to eat for several days) and before he bit it he said, "I am eating this because I love you."

    He is not a quitter, but things are shutting down.

    We called hospice for him yesterday, and they came this morning, and left us with pain and anxiety meds should they be needed. For anyone who is curious they gave us oral (liquid) morphene, ativan, and haldol. I am thankful that he can be home and is so far quite comfortable. If he gets into any pain or struggle, though, we can alleviate it. I am glad he rallied and we had a very nice 48 hours together. I love my Dad so much. My kids all called and he had a radiant smile for those calls. His sister, my cousins, even my ex-husband all called to tell him how much they love him. That has been beautiful and I am glad to be here to make a difference.

    Im sad, but It will be ok.

  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    santabarbarian, I am so, so sorry about your dad. I think your observations are correct based on my experiences with dying people. It’s terrible that he was so sick and seemed to rally, but fortunate that he was able to talk to everyone. Hospice is really a wonderful program and they truly try to help make pts comfortable/pain free. My mother’s hospice nurse was a gem and was a comfort to us as well. The greatest silver lining is that he is at home. I’m not sure about where you are, but many hospitals are not allowing anyone but pts in and the healthcare workers are talking about the profound sadness they are feeling b/c so many people are dying alone. Again, I am so sorry, but glad you are where you are with it.

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Yogatyme - Thank you!

    santabarbarian - I'm so sorry. I am glad that you are together and he's surrounded by love. He sounds like a good man and father. I don't have experience with hospice. People in my family have died suddenly.

    Hug

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Caremongering is now a thing. How cool is that?

    https://nypost.com/2020/03/18/what-is-caremongerin...


  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    This is so, so cool and proves the humanitarianism in people! Thanks for sharing!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    I’m having a salty bath, listening to Bill Withers, and came across this post. Watch and enjoy this baby getting her hair washed.

    https://twitter.com/redstethoscope/status/1246563124385320961?s=21

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  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    Awww, so sweet!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    This must be the best Zoom meeting! Watch til the end.


  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    Serenity, that was fabulous!! And you are right, you have to watch to the very end!!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Glad you liked!

    Joys:

    1) Bought a large bag of yeast in the Before Times

    2) All prescriptions are delivered (no added cost even)

    3) My SIL is going to the hospital only once a week for covid-19 duty (her regular clinic is closed)

    4) Limoncello

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    5) Joint pain from Exemestane and Ibrance GONE!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    (I don’t really like poutine, ssshhhh).

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  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

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  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Yogatyme - People like to blame China, but there were multiple points of failure.

    Chef José is the best man. He's been posting videos of him cooking in quarantine to Hamilton tunes.

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  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 1,793
    edited April 2020

    Serenity, exactly right.

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Had my Sunday coffee with cream today. It felt right.

    Medicating

  • faith-840
    faith-840 Member Posts: 926
    edited April 2020

    I used to enjoy this forum. NOT anymore!!! This is no place for anything political! I don’t ever want to see another reference to any political leader no matter what side of the fence you are on. So STOP NOW!

    Faith, who is losing faith in humanity with these political comments!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    Been there.

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  • Gamb
    Gamb Member Posts: 570
    edited April 2020

    Lol!! sweet.

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 2,311
    edited April 2020

    Who knew my Mom's hoarding behavior would finally have an actual payoff?! A thin slice of joy for me was discovering about 40 large packages of TP here!

  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

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  • SerenitySTAT
    SerenitySTAT Member Posts: 3,534
    edited April 2020

    My husband went out for the weekly food shopping. There was a small line to enter. Before getting a cleaned cart, he answered some screening questions and washed his hands at a portable sink with a pedal to turn on the water. Once inside he found everything he needed. They had more TP than usual, but he didn't buy any. The cashier was her usual chipper self. He estimates about 30% of shoppers wore a face covering. He wore a Buff.

    We're on the island of Montreal, but west of the outbreaks. The mayor wants everyone to stay close to home. There have been too many people going downtown. No staycations!

    Not bad considering what I've read is happening elsewhere.

    I'm waiting for the delivery of Ibrance and Xgeva. I'll go to a local clinic tonight to get the Xgeva injected. It's never crowded, and sick patients aren't treated there. Still a bit anxious about being in public though. Breathe.