Feb 2, 2019 10:30PM Parrynd1 wrote:You are so strong Micmel. Hang in there. Even if he isn’t being easy remember you are doing this for your heart too. To know and feel like you did the right thing and the best you could with what’s been put on your plate. When my grandma was dying of cancer my family barely put in effort for her. They tried to put it all on my shoulders when I was barely 20 living in another state (when her 2 sons lived hours from her). I wish I could have done more, but I did my best and that’s all any of us can do. I like to think she knows everything now and understands. The other people involved, like your step-monster, have to live with their choices. I don’t think there’s any hard feelings...just the important ones like how much I love her. I can’t say much for my uncles though. I hope he settles in to this new place and does well there. Maybe you can take a spa day or girls day soon! Something just for you to be pampered and relaxed.