TIME TO CIRCLE THE WAGONS GIRLS

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  • lizws
    lizws Member Posts: 789
    edited December 2007

    Thanks Vickie - things didn't look to good on the scan.  What will be will be though. 

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2007

    My dear sweet sisters I didnt mean to worry you I am sorry the message I got didnt come through pm it came to me in a christmas card on dec 24th i couldnt make out the state it came from but it was really hurtful I dont think ive said anything to anyone on here as far as i know i came here for support and you all gave loveing and kindly to me thanks so much i just read mena isnt doing well please tell her she is in my prayers i first met her in 2005 she is so sweet  but girls i will be back regular and hope i find all you ladies doing well    god bless deb from ky

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 2,941
    edited December 2007

    Liz...the scan will be fine!!!  Storming heaven!  Have you had symptoms? 

    Slonedeb...it is so good to see you back...how could anyone be so cruel!  Hugs to you.

  • lizws
    lizws Member Posts: 789
    edited December 2007

    deb - bless your heart.  Mean people have sad lives.  I'm so glad to see you here.

    Vickie - a few.  It's going to be okay though.

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 842
    edited December 2007

    Liz,

    Wrapping you in a huge bear huge,

    Love,

    Bren

  • Emelee26
    Emelee26 Member Posts: 98
    edited December 2007

    Liz..I'm sending hugs for your scans..

    Love Marisa

  • christineK
    christineK Member Posts: 735
    edited December 2007

    I have not read back yet, but Liz...scans? (only clear ones for you)

    I just want to say I hope everyone is recovering from the craziness of Christmas and the Holidays... looking forward to a peaceful and calm start of the New Year. Happiness and Good Health to all.

    Much love and looking forward to spending more time here with my friends in 2008. I have been neglectful for the past few months. My apologies and 2008 hugs to each of you...that's alot of huggin'!

  • Naniam
    Naniam Member Posts: 586
    edited December 2007

    Liz, sure hope you feel the love and concern everyone has for you.  The difficulties we face are so much easier when we have friends that travel the journey with us.  We are all praying for a good report.

    Sloandeb a Christmas card that you received on Christmas Eve - that is so cruel. Liz is right though - someone has to be awfully miserable in their own life to do something like that.  I'm sorry that happened to you but I hope the rest of us have shown you that we welcome you, we care, and we're just glad you are back.  Hope you are doing better health wise.

    WildJan, I make me tired thinking of all that has to be done!!  House is straightened for the next round of family to celebrate Christmas.  Don't have any groceries for this yet and since we have a pizza, sub and salad shop, well, Friday night might just be a pizza night for everyone.  I hope Nicki is right and all goes well with your son's travel plans.

    Hubby got his injection today - told him it would be 3-7 days before he would see any improvement.  If this one doesn't work, he can have another one in January.  

    It looks as if many of you are going to see white tomorrow - think we might see gray; just hope our gray brings more liquid stuff our way.  Just stay safe everyone.  

    Vickie, did Nate have a good Christmas?  How are the puppies.  

    There is someone I'm missing that was having surgery before Christmas; haven't seen a post from her.  Of course, being tired and late at night doesn't help the name come to me.

    Better close and get to bed.  Tomorrow - heck it is almost tomorrow - got to get up early.  Can I tell you guys that I really hate to use that slicer!!  Boring and my body doesn't like standing pretty much in one position while doing that chore.

    Hope everyone rest well.  Tomorrow is TGIF!

    Brenda 

  • b445
    b445 Member Posts: 980
    edited December 2007

    hi all!

    We had a wonderful prime rib dinner Christmas Eve with Charlie and her hubby. Christmas morning we went to Charlies for a fmail breakfast. then we can home for naps and woke up to a white Christmas1 It made me so Happy. Only lasted a few hours but it was Great!. Then the kida came over for dinner and presants. It was so fun! Cloe loved her gutair! she asked if it was Poppies and got the biggest smile when we told her it was hers! she sat strumming it for almost 30 minutes.

    Mena my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will try to call in the next day or so.

    Things has been busy with family around. My niece and Nephew came over tonight. He's only here for less than 48 hours but made sure to take time to come see me.

    Well I'm getting tired so will sign off for tonight.

    Hugs & Prayers to each and every one of you

    Love ya

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited December 2007

    Good Morning Everyone.  I actually woke up early enough to post.  Yes we are gonna have a snowstorm here in the Chicago end of the circle.  They are predicting 3-5 inches by nightfall and that doesnt include Lake effect snow.  So Im gonna go to work early and try to get home before driving gets bad.

    Hello sunshine sister Vickie:  Yes its the big "S" - isnt it crazy.  The day after Christmas it was 40 degrees and I took a little walk along the shores of Lake Michigan.  Today snow!  And to think we have 3 more months of this.  Yucko!

    Liz:  Yep seems like whatever weather you get, comes this way.  Once I am home, Im not gonna care about the snow as DH isnt working and we have lots of food in the house.  But driving around Chicago in the snow stinks and I have to go to work for at least a little bit.  Hope you can get the results of the scan today.  Hate to think you would have to wait over the week-end.  Sending lots of love your way.

    Slonedeb:  You dont know how happy I am to see a post from you.  There are many of us here that know you and Mena from the chat in 2005 and you are both in our hearts.  Im sorry that someone would be so cruel to send such an evil thing to you around the Holidays.  That is really one mean spirited person.  You have never said anything to hurt anyones feelings here.  You have always been one of the sweetest persons I know and Im glad you are my friend.  It aches my heart to know your feelings were hurt on Christmas Eve.  But look around - there are so many that care about you.

    Whoever sent this Card to Slonedeb, all I can say is shame on you.  Why?  Why?  Just remember what comes around, goes around. 

    Christine:  So good to hear from you.  I have been thinking about you alot and have been missing you.  Im so glad the Holidays are over as I want to get back to normal whatever that is.

    Bren and Marissa:  Im waving at both of you and maybe will have time to catch up with you all this week-end.

    Brenda/Naniam:  I am so lost with many sisters as the holidays were just crazy and with working I had very little computer time.  I know there are many sisters missing and I hope after the Holidays are over we will hear from them.  Im glad your DH got the injection and hoping it works.  Are you working today?  Yep - snow here today.  I cant wait until Spring.

    CY:  It was good to hear from you and Im so glad you had a good Christmas.  How did your liver scans go?  I hope everything is well.

    You all are not gonna believe this.  You know how when the weather is warm I take my Mister for walks?  Well on the news yesterday, a man was shot in the head while walking his dog in the same town I live in!  Now mind you, this is a nice suburb of Chicago.  They are saying it was an attempted robbery!  Guess I wont be walking my dog after dark.

    OK - its time for me to go.  I hope you all have a wonderful day and I will check back later when I get home.

    Slonedeb and Liz:  This is for you.

    Nicki

  • neesie
    neesie Member Posts: 1,110
    edited December 2007

    Good Morning!

    Hope all are recovering nicely from Christmas and getting ready for the "new year!"

    Liz:  I've been worried about you...............knowing your scans will be fine and will be waiting to hear that from you.  Love ya!

    Nicki:  As Liz sends her weather to you....you always seem to send your weather to me!  Is this what it means to be "connected" and "friends!"  Drive safely out there!

    I've got the after Christmas blahs.............that started before Christmas! Oh well, that's for me to deal with...............right now we have so many in need of prayers and care........that is where I need to focus.

    Wedding number 2 of the Holiday week is tonight...........that's just wrong!

    This one is the first Grandchild on Husbands side to get married...........so I'm sure it will be a LLLLLLLLong night................Me wanting to go home and DH having a good time.  Normally he doesn't like going anywhere, but I just know that this being his niece and he will know alot of the guests......I'm in for it.  Plus, I'll probably have to drive home from where ever it is.........hope the weather holds off.

    Thinking of all of you!

    Hugs,

    Neesie 

  • susanmcm
    susanmcm Member Posts: 699
    edited December 2007

    Hi all,

    Liz my scans looked awful also.  That's normal.  so there. 

    CY did you get your scans on Wednesday? 

    Slonedeb you are always welcome.

    Christine so nice to hear from you.  Would you like to join me and Neesie on our treck around the nation.  St. Louis is on the way to Michigan.  If we map this out right we can visit everyone.  We are going to need a big car/van/bus.  I have a tiny car, seats 4.  Either we get a bus or we will have to rotate people in and out.  Or stick someone on the roof.  Hmmm.....maybe we could use Mazer and the magic carpet and pull people on that.  I know, we will rent an RV.  woohoo.

    Deb C I'm game for Alaska too.

    Mena, hope you are feeling better today.

    susan

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 842
    edited December 2007

    Wahhhh!!  I want to go to Alaska too.  Somebody come down here to VA and pick me up!!  Deb promised to cook for me if I could somehow get there.  Please don't make me ride with Mazer or on the roof.  I need my comforts!!

    Except, since I'm on my way to Roanoke for 2 days to be with my mom and sis, you'll have to find me up there. 

    Prayers for all those with scans and waiting for results.  I'll try to check in while I'm gone.

    love you all,

    Bren

  • AlaskaDeb
    AlaskaDeb Member Posts: 1,159
    edited December 2007

    OK ladies....just give me 24 hours notice and the food and drinks will be ready!!  I would just love to see you all.  My mom even has a barn for mazer...I'll even make her her own pan of cinnamon buns :)

    North to Alaska...North to Russias home...(singing here...)

    Love ya

    Deb C 

  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 539
    edited December 2007

    {{{DEB}}}

    Can this Hillbilly come!!??

    I could stay with mazerLaughing

    {{SUSAN}} Love Ya!

    Liz, I am soooooooo sorry but have been praying along with all!

    could You please PM me and let me know what is going on?

    I feel so bad, dont know much about my Sisters Problems, had no

    PC for so long! Pease know My heart is with You and all of The Sisters xoxo

    Puppy

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2007

    liz good to see you dear sister i miss you in chat puppy keep me updated on mena please liz hope you are ok and not having problems  i posted on the other board and am tired i wrote so much  girls you all have saved my life by giving me hope and helping me not to listen to the doctors all the time puppy i am so shocked that the doctor said mena only had 2 months to live i thought she was ned i didnt know her bc had come back that really makes me sad  love  deb from ky   cy i recieved your christmas card today thanks sweet sister

  • lizws
    lizws Member Posts: 789
    edited December 2007

    Hi everyone, thank you all for your thoughts, prayers and love.  I heard from the onc's nurse.  Bone scan was inconclusive and I have a PET scan on Monday.  So who wants to tell me what to expect for that one?  LOL

    Hugs

    Liz

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited December 2007

    Hello Everyone.  I came home early - its snowing pretty good but not too bad if your used to driving in snow.  Its gonna end up being a nice day.  Im home.  DH doesnt have to work. We have food. We have booze.  What else could a girl ask for?

    Neese:  Oh I just laughed so hard.  We really are connected.  And since this storm is worse north, I would suspect your in for about 5-7 inches.

    Susan:  Well Im game for the road trip.  If we go to Alaska I want to see the Northern lights!

    Bren:  Stopping at Virginia?  A piece of cake.  I will swing by and get you, just make sure to bring the curved hemostat.Laughing  I dont know if I should say have a good time or not!  At this point after the Christmas I dont want to do one gosh darn thing.

    DebC:  OMG you are luring us with food!  Especially your cooking!  This might end up turning into a real thing.

    Puppy:  Hahaha, you could stay with Mazer?  Gosh darn there goes all of our cinnamon buns.

    Liz:  All I can say is this stinks.  Oh and sending a big hug your way.

    Nicki

  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Member Posts: 771
    edited December 2007

    Hi girls, just dropping in to let you know I've been around, just very busy.  Hubby is off to so we're together 24/7 - yikes, sometimes there can be too much togetherness LOL.  Just wanted to check on everyone.  Slonedeb, glad you listened to us and not the spiteful one that had the nerve to send you a nasty card.  You're here for good.

    Back later when I get a chance.

    Margaret

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited December 2007

    Margo:  Well I for one have missed you way too much and glad to see you back.

    Cheri:  I want to thank you for banning me from you site.  Im thankful the moderators here at bco and Gina were smart enough to know what a dysfunctional person you were.  So I can say it out loud.  PLEASE stop sending pm's to everyone.  PLEASE stop sending copies of what we have written to hurt anothers feelings. 

    I just stepped outside.  We didnt get nearly as much snow as they predicted.  In fact I think I drove home during the heaviest snowfall.  I gotta say - it sure looks pretty.

    Nicki

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 13
    edited December 2007

    I believe that you are a Cyber Bully, nicki. Anything I ever sent was to show people what was being said by so called "friends" behind their backs. That was over 2 months ago and I do believe a friend of yours said anything that was dug up from months prior and brought to light yet again, was Cyber Bullying. I have sent no PM's. I, personally, have not sent any emails except the ones mentioned above a couple months ago. I'm so sorry you feel the way you do. No, don't sweat it, I'm not going to post anything so your "friends" can see how you really feel about them. It just doesn't matter to me anymore.You might need a meds increase because you go from someone being "sweet sunshine sister" one day to calling them that ugly 'B' word somewhere else that night. tsk tsk I won't do that to you though. At least I'm consistent and people know where I stand. When reading your post I realized how sad and insecure you really are. Maybe I should've dealt with you more gently. We have no negativity or problems on my site unless you bring them up...surely you've noticed that? So, it is for the best that you left i think we'll all be more comfortable now. Posting on a board I can only read on and not post back really isn't playing fair, now is it? So even though this will get deleted it'll be there for a few min. anyway.

    I noticed you 'edited' your original post a whole lot. Glad I copied it before you deleted your nastiness. Sorry, but this I am going to post but not your rantings about ....well you know all the people you were so ugly about...bet they know too. You know, I'm almost flattered that anyone could think I'm smart enough to be the sole player behind the scenes on everything you blamed me for.

    Yes, of course I knew you left my site months ago. You were there as a troll basically but you had nothing to report cos we're all friends and get along so you had to start something this morning. Pathetic.

    Cheri

    copy of your original post below:

    Margo:  Well I for one have missed you way too much and glad to see you back.

    Cheri:  I want to thank you for banning me from one of the most negative forums I have ever taken part in.  Im thankful the moderators here at bco and Gina were smart enough to know what a dysfunctional person you were.  So I can say it out loud.  PLEASE stop sending pm's to everyone.  PLEASE stop sending copies of what we have written to hurt anothers feelings. 

    To everyone else, just rest assured - all this negativity is related to Cheri.  One way or another she is trying to destroy whatever she can get her hands on. 

    I suspect she will post some things I may have said about many - for that Im sorry and if I hurt anyones feelings Im sorry.

    Neese, Susan or anyone else that is interested in joining this  Cheris site, all I can say is that it will be the biggest mistake of your life.  Dont just ask me, ask the many nice woman here who have been hurt and banned because we were smart enough to recognize what she is doing and not afraid to speak up or challenge that what she is doing is wrong.

    And just to clariy - all of the other sisters who are part of Cheris board are wonderful.  This is about one very negative person who takes delight in hurting others.

    Oh and I want to clarify one more thing. I kissed Cheri good bye long before she banned me hahahahaha.

      

    Nicki 

    chemosabi

  • Unknown
    edited May 2008

    ** runs to get popcorn and blanket ..plops in comfy recliner to watch the show**  LOL

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited December 2007

    Hahahaha Jasmine.  Does it have butter.  Pleaseeee!

    Nicki

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 2,941
    edited December 2007

    shove over and share the popcorn...this is fun! 

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited December 2007

    I have decided to edit this because I do not wish to be associated with any of this crap whatsoever I am so done with it all.

    Please stop.

    When is enough enough?

    WE are women who had breast cancer. ISN'T THAT ENOUGH SUFFERING? Do we always have to have "trouble" brewing??

    This isn't like  a website about antiques or car collecting... it is a website for women to support other women going through a very trying time and a life altering disease.

    Nicki has been a wonderful friend to all here. She is a valued member of Breascancer.org.

    2008 is upon us. Why don't we all just stop this shit and remember who we are and what we have all been through.

    This is petty and nasty and SO UNECESSARY.

    Just friggin STOP IT already. 

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 2,728
    edited December 2007

    Gina:  Thanks

    Vickie:  Can I have some chocolate with the popcorn?

    Nicki

  • Unknown
    edited December 2007

    You have made it abundantly clear that you do not like me, Brenda, Vickie, Jasmine,and now Nicki. OK. We got the message. You don't like us.

    OH PLEASE!!!! You are the last person I want any support from.  You are not my friend and you don't like me either so leave me out of your 'outrage.'

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited December 2007

    Slonedeb,

    I am so sorry you were sent such a hateful thing.

    The wagon circle is a place of love and caring.

    So too is the dreamer thread.

    NO ONE HERE would EVER send you such a thing.

    Now I pray to God the other stuff will just stop and go away.

    Love,

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 737
    edited December 2007

    No problem Jasmine, I edited the whole thing anyway. I wasn't including you in outrage, i was simply listing people.

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Member Posts: 471
    edited December 2007

    Oh Nicki, my friend .. what the hell happened and why would you post this kind of trife on here?  Cheri's forum is far from negative and you are giving people the wrong impression of it, even as you single her out and say the rest of us are wonderful.  You are saying it's a negative forum and I just want to clear that up.  It's a bunch of close friends hanging out together on a non-cancer board.  This really saddens me to see this happen.  As much as people might hate to hear it, we have much better things to do than talk about anyone here or at Gina's.  I know, I know .. it's more fun to gossip about what the evils at Cheri's site must be up to.  Sorry to disappoint you people but it's not that way.  I for one will proudly go on record to say that Cheri is one of the most real, decent, loyal friends I know and I am tired of seeing her being ganged up on by so called friends and "sisters".  When she got banned from BCO, she was defending Nicki and also was one of the only ones posting regularly trying to keep the Circle alive here.  Nobody noticed that loyalty.  She went overboard but she knew she was about to be banned for something ridiculous ... her anger came out in her posts.  Hmmm, can we forget those moments of anger like we're asking to forget about others?  I certainly hope we aren't being hypocritical and only following that advice when it's most convenient to do so.