2013 Survivors!!!

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  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    all out posts are out of whack ?   or is it just my computer at work ?

    Edited to add:  Seems they are OK now ?????

  • Outdamnedspot
    Outdamnedspot Member Posts: 164
    edited February 2013

    Your most recent looks fine but before that, it was all wonky

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    Yeah... thought it maybe me just wonky - ha ha !!

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 761
    edited February 2013

    First of all, WELCOME BACK, SCORCHY! We need your wisdom and sarcasm here all the time!

    Allurbddays, yes, it makes sense that we should not all be on the same strength Tamo, because we are all different weights and heights. At the moment it is a one-size-fits-all approach, it seems.

    Juneau, I feel like you about the fact that I'm trying my utmost, but the scale is not moving. At the moment I'm more focussed on eating healthy, and becoming fit and strong. Trying not to be so hung up on what the scale says, but it sucks that it is so hard to move the weight.  It does not help that DH has lost 7 lbs in the last four weeks. He eats the same as me, just bigger portions, and he exercises in the gym. I know men are different, but really? Refreshingmountain looks, well. . . . refreshing! It will be great to spend time there together. 

    Chrisrenee, good for you for losing that pound. Keep going!

    Tazzy, let me know if you find cheap tickets. I will be looking too.

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    liefie:  I will... I will also look at going out of Bellingham rather can Canada.   For sure I'll let you know.

  • Scottiee1
    Scottiee1 Member Posts: 1,790
    edited February 2013

    Hi gang..having a hard time posting this week .....so busy at work ....new school term started along with a new computer system

    and besides I think I need to hire a secretary just to keep with you lot 😓



    Scorchy...love you and glad you're back....but will be keeping an eye on you too. 👀



    Sheryl....I like the cap..... very cute



    Everyone else.....love you and will try to post later

  • aruba
    aruba Member Posts: 276
    edited February 2013

    Glad the posts got fixed..I thought I was taking the vertigo to a new level!  Still only seem to get the dizziness when I turn to right side in bed..but only once last night..such a weird feeling..but at least now not so scared! 

    Scorchy..glad to have you here with us!  You do belong!

    Checked out the drive from here to PA would be about 6 hours..but then saw the date...2nd day of Rosh Hashana..so I won't be able to attend.

    Put the gym on hold this week due to the dizzies....but did go out in the sun and cleaned off the ice and falling icicles from the first sunshine in days.  Hugs to all!

  • juneaubugg
    juneaubugg Member Posts: 517
    edited February 2013

    I haven't signed anything yet so don't book flights! I am waiting to talk to the contact. So far ten of you have said yes, but I need to find out the minimum commitment. I think it's 20. I won't pay out and end up stuck either so i will have to see what I will do after I have more details. (Chrisrenee. Is it the date?)

  • ramols
    ramols Member Posts: 310
    edited February 2013

    Well ladies - it's official. I have been radiated. First real treatment today. Again - like all else with this shit, pretty anticlimactic. Best news was they told me my txt plan calls for 25 txts - which is a full week less than I thought it would be. Small victories. 

    A bit sad today as my neighbor's mom lost her battle with lung cancer today. I didn't know her well, but had a constant chemo-based dialogue going with my neighbor - as they were always having questions or concerned about her reactions. Another person claimed at too young an age from f'ing cancer. Fuck off already would ya cancer!

    Love and hugs ladies!

  • Outdamnedspot
    Outdamnedspot Member Posts: 164
    edited February 2013

    If anyone from eastern Ontario wants to go to the retreat, I will be driving from Brighton. Around 7 hours. I can take three, so keep that in mind if you thought getting there might be difficult and prevent you from going.



    If interested, PM me. I enjoy road trips!

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Ok ladies - my first haircut was today and I a happy with it:) of course want it to be long again but she thinned it out because it was coming in all crazy thick! Yeah a first hair cut! And she was the girl who cut it off for me before it started coming out! Milestone and I am happy! Still short but could cut it! Happy dance for today!



    Girl friends got together with me and got me a t shirt . It says, of course their fake, my real ones tried to kill me. It was with good intentions so I like it:)

  • juneaubugg
    juneaubugg Member Posts: 517
    edited February 2013

    Mcook; I have the same shirt. It's actually a tank top. My friend with BC got us both one. My PS loved it. I wore it there last summer when I went in for my last fill.

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Awesome Juneau! Sad thing is they bought me a small:) hope it fits but I love it regardless and it was awesome of them!

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Man our post are messed up on the page tonight! What is up with that?

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    Ramols: sorry to hear about your neighbours sister... I agree, fuck of already cancer !!  Yep, rads was anticlimatic and a bit like groundhog day Smile

    juneau:  fingers and toes crossed for my attendance.  Geesh how pissed I'd be if I knew you girls were whooping it up and I was sat here Wink

    mcook:  great you had a haircut.   I am still waiting for my first one.   I wear headbands as my crown is still pretty sparse.

    Hello to everyone else and hugs and hugs  xxxxx  Have a great Thursday

  • juneaubugg
    juneaubugg Member Posts: 517
    edited February 2013

    mcook;  didn't they figure that bigger boobs would be the only bonus to come out of this nightmare.  Jeesh...!  I went from a medium to a large most of the time (although a lot of my mediums still fit, which was my plan). 

    I had my second haircut on Tuesday.  It's really more of a trim.  My hairdresser is a close frined - so she just shaves the back of my neck and trims it up and then buzzes the sides up to my ears and then around my ears.  The top is getting longer slowly but surely. 

    Hoping to get the guy on the phone to find out details of booking Refreshing Mountain for the weekend.  I may ask for you to all pay 1/2 up front to book your spots.  That way I won't have to lay out all of the monies for this little shin dig; becuase I certainly don't have it.  STAY TUNED!

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Hey ladies - my friend needs some encouragement! Can't have him giving up hope and men are not the best at sharing their feelings. If you have Facebook, here is page so you an send prayers and encouraging words to my friend Jason Spurlin



    Join me



    Michelle cook Berdusis



    You have all been in my pockets here, so I have no issues sharing my life with you. I hope we will all be life long partners and do some crazy fun stuff together:)



    Love you all and you are some tough bitches!

  • Chrisrenee77
    Chrisrenee77 Member Posts: 693
    edited February 2013

    Michelle- we think you are a tough bitch too! Wink Sometimes being tough is all we have. Sent you a PM.

    Hope everyone is having a great day.

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    Michelle... fellow tough bitch Wink  OK cant find you on facebook and lots of Jason Spurlin's ??  Thoughts to him and you and his family. 

  • websister
    websister Member Posts: 405
    edited February 2013

    McCook - same as Tazzy said ;)

  • Joanne_53
    Joanne_53 Member Posts: 714
    edited February 2013

    Ditto ;)

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Dang it Michelle Cook Berdusis and my last name not very common p. ok let me see if can find a way to link it!

  • iatigger
    iatigger Member Posts: 269
    edited February 2013

    Michelle, It is unbelievable but my good friend who gave me the strength to not freak out when I got BC because I had watched her incredible attitude the last 6 yrs was just diagnosed with a tumor on her temporal lobe. She continues to have a good outlook despite it all. When will all this insanity called cancer stop?!?!

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    FUCK, FUCK, FUCK AND ANOTHER THOUSAND FUCKS. 

    My Boss and very good friend just called me - she's just been diagnosed wtih breast cancer.  Yes iatigger when will this fucking insanity called cancer stop.     She's only just found out so no treatment plan yet.  She was there for me so much during last year.   I am just so fucking angry and sad right now.  She did catch it early so that's a positive.  

    Hugs to all of you - I love you all xxxx

    Off to have a glass of wine - bollocks to it ! 

  • Chrisrenee77
    Chrisrenee77 Member Posts: 693
    edited February 2013

    Oh Tazzy! That is crazy, but at least she has you to help her get through this. This fucking disease seems to be running rampant and I hate it.Thank goodness for early detection. Tell her we are all praying for her.

    Ladies look me up on FB Christy-Jon Anderson.

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 1,442
    edited February 2013

    Thanks guys... DH is just talking to her DH - fuck, fuck, fuck.  I will let her know we're all rooting for her... and every other person out there with it.

  • mcook301
    mcook301 Member Posts: 314
    edited February 2013

    Fuck is right Tazzy! I am just fucking pissed at the fact that this diease is out of control and we need a cure!

  • maryah930
    maryah930 Member Posts: 122
    edited February 2013

    This has been my IMs and emails since Monday:

    Finn, 2 yo son of my friend Kate diagnosed with leukemia on Monday and will be in the hospital for about 2 weeks for chemo.

    Our friend and massage therapist, Kaori, is in Japan with her mom, who was just diagnosed with BC last week.  We won't know anything more until she returns.

    My friend Melissa just contacted me this AM as a good friend and colleague of hers was just diagnosed yesterday with Stage 3 BC and asked if I would provide encouragement to her friend.

    My grandson Ezra, who has had two open heart surgeries, is scheduled to have a root canal and additional dental surgery under general anesthesia with IV antibiotics due to his heart condition on Valentine's Day.  The last time he went under general anesthesia 2 years ago, his O2 sats dropped to the 60's and never went back up.  He had emergent open heart surgery the next night.

    Now I'll say it FUCK, FUCK, FUCK! I'm sorry, but no more for the week, PLEASE!

  • juneaubugg
    juneaubugg Member Posts: 517
    edited February 2013

    I m glad to see everyone is embracing the power of words.... G-d-FUCKING-DamnIT!!!! Hugs, love and prayers to each of your lives one as they make their journey. It's crazy isn't it. We all did this together, yet the truth is; even with a huge family, a TON of friends and a living spouse (children for most of you)... At the end of the day it's OUR body that takes the journey and therefore we go it alone. At night when the lights go out, it's just me and this shell that continues to cause me stress. *sigh*



    Prayers coming your way ladies....

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 1,801
    edited February 2013

    Oh, my......SO many prayer requests going up tonight, Sisters!!!

    xoxo