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  • SheliaMarie
    SheliaMarie Member Posts: 284

    I went back and was reading some of Patty’s journey, and just wanted to extend my “condolences” if you will to Chevy and Sas. It looks like y’all have been super close to patty since way back in 2014. She often posted how much she loved reading her big sis’s (chevys) daily posts, and I believe she referred to sas as “dr” due to all her knowledge. I actually felt like I got to know you two as well as her in those early days :)

    Anyway, this just to say, I know her struggle right now must be really hard on you both, and I’m sorry.

  • Sue2009
    Sue2009 Member Posts: 96

    this website really needs like/love buttons. This community is amazing & done more for me emotionally than any thing else in my life. The passion of Christ flower... I want to frame it. It feels somewhat voyeristic following Patty’s last days, but knowing how genuine we all feel towards her makes it ok. I can only hope people care as much as I feel I am starting my own decline & just don’t have a great amount of fight left in me. 😴 so much tired these days. Sue.

  • snickersmom
    snickersmom Member Posts: 599

    Sleep well, Patty. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Madelyn - thank you again.

  • janky
    janky Member Posts: 478

    Sue2009 - We do need love/like buttons here :) I too, only came to 'know' Patty through this thread, but feel that there is a bond that we all share, and Patty knows this is compassion, prayers and positivity, not 'voyering'...I pray that you are going to feel better and not begin on the next leg of your journey yet, when you do, please reach out!!! gentle hugs, janice

  • 70charger
    70charger Member Posts: 591

    Wrapping you in a big ol' hug.

  • vampeyes
    vampeyes Member Posts: 523

    Thinking of you always and sending you tons of gentle cyber hugs.

  • micmel
    micmel Member Posts: 10,060

    Good Morning. Patty giving you a kiss on the forehead and holding your hand for my daily visit. Loving you always. Missing our two word games togther.

    Two:lovely sister

    Much love ~M

  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,173

    Sending love to Patty. It's a little early still for her breakfast. 

    Dreaming of blueberry cake donuts and donut holes, and all things wonderful for you Patty.

    Sending love and prayers.

  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,173

    Dear Vampeyes: just something you mentioned with cancer on the previous page:

    "They have AIDS changed from a death sentence why can't they get it together with Cancer"

    I know it is frustrating to fight cancer, or watch our love ones fight cancer. And it feels like if doctors/researches can treat AIDS why not cancer as well? Although AIDS is a spectrum of conditions caused by infection by the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), those conditions are caused by one virus. Also, without treatment, the average survival time after infection is 11 years.(UNAIDS)

    The difference, IMHO, is that cancer is not one disease, but many diseases. Each part of the body can get cancer and each cancer behaves differently to treatment. Some cancers (skin, kidney) are fairly easy to treat, while others are more complex, more aggressive, more deadly (pancreas, breast, lung). 

    Breast cancer is very complex. There are many forms of breast cancer: ductal, lobal, inflammatory breast cancer, Paget's disease, phyllodes tumor, and there are many other sub-types (more than 18 at last count), plus breast cancer can be hormone negative or positive for 3 hormones. Breast tissue is harder to reach, harder to get clean margins, and can metastasize before even being discovered.  

    I don't wish to minimize AIDS. I've lost classmates to AIDS. I've lost many, many people to cancer, and lots of them to breast cancer. 


  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,989

    We all look forward to the day breast cancer does not take any lives. Love you all Heart

  • vargadoll
    vargadoll Member Posts: 1,942

    Thinking of Patty and sending peace. Rest well our sweet friend. Praying for comfort for everyone!

  • molliefish
    molliefish Member Posts: 650

    thank you Chevyboy, one of my favourites


  • micmel
    micmel Member Posts: 10,060

    image..... loving you my sweet sister. ❤️❤️ ~M~

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 47,809

    Heart

  • MissBianca
    MissBianca Member Posts: 1,291

    What blessings Chevyboy and Micmel.👼

    Dear Patty,

    What joy you will know when the angels carry you home. God assigns us angels, and I believe you are not alone, along with the Lord.

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  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,852

    Thinking of you and praying for you Patty

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  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,989

    Sending love Patty ♥️♥️♥️

  • new2bc
    new2bc Member Posts: 254

    Patty,

    We all miss you. Praying for you and your boys.

  • new2bc
    new2bc Member Posts: 254

    Patty,

    We all miss you. Praying for you and your boys.

  • micmel
    micmel Member Posts: 10,060

    loving you my sweet friend over the miles. Hugs and love always ~M~

  • vargadoll
    vargadoll Member Posts: 1,942

    Beautiful church service this morning with Patty on my heart.

    Above and below me, before and behind me, in ev'ry eye that sees me, Christ be all around me.

    Patty, I am praying that you feel Christ all around you.

    Lifting you up always!

  • snickersmom
    snickersmom Member Posts: 599

    Vargadoll -- that is absolutely beautiful.

    Patty - you are in my prayers as always.



  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 47,809

    Thinking of you, Patty. It's a cool but pretty fall day herein North Dakota.

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  • micmel
    micmel Member Posts: 10,060

    Patty, Hello beauty. I am here for my morning visit. I love you sweet sister. Hugs and love endlessly. ~M~

    Miss you! Two words

  • micmel
    micmel Member Posts: 10,060

    imageListen to the water running. The peaceful sounds as you sit and enjoy your surroundings in a beautiful place. Much love to you precious sister ~M~

  • MissBianca
    MissBianca Member Posts: 1,291

    Micmel and everybody here, what gorgeous posts, an outpouring of love and beauty! 😍❤️🦋

    Dear sweet Patty,

    You are constantly pressed upon my heart. May your rest be sweet, your morning visits be blessed, with you basking in the everpresent love of God.

    Lots of love,

    Janet

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  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,173

    This morning's exchange with D***:

    //

    Good morning...
    This is D***…
    Patty is starting to not eat …. still drinking a lil bit
    Pretty much bed ridden now … still recognizes me .. other people for now

    //

    Good morning D***.
    Thank you for the update.
    This is very sad.
    Is Patty in pain or
    is hospice able to keep her comfortable?

    //

    They r keeping her comfortable....
    Yes …. just ready for to go home … & be Healed ..
    No more tears … Pain ….

    //

    Times like this really try our faith.
    I light candles for Patty and ask God to bring her safely home.

    //

    I'm fixing to head to work..
    I will keep u posted …

    //

    Ok thank you so much.
    Please give Patty my love and love from her friends on bco.
    Love and prayers for you, D***, and your precious boys.

    //

    Ok
    Thank u !!

    //

    ❤️


    //

    That’s all we texted.

    Holding Patty especially close in my prayers today.

    Madelyn

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Member Posts: 11,989

    Mominator - thank you for the updates. Praying for an easily release for her now......

  • vargadoll
    vargadoll Member Posts: 1,942

    At church yesterday we had a guest performer. She was a singer and a motivational speaker. She said that she had hope in Heaven and one day she would see her father again. I've never heard it put that way before but I liked it. So now I'm here with hope in Heaven and Patty to be at peace. May Angels be all around you to comfort you and your family.