MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish

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  • lynniea
    lynniea Member Posts: 336

    Thanks I have my 6th chemo on Thurs and praying all goes better and no pain this time I know

    God can take care of it.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    Good luck Lynniea!

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885
    Is it just my defective brain, or did we never hear back from suzwes or mumayan on how that "Thrivers' Cruise" went? 
  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    They posted somewhere cuz I've seen pictures!  I thought it was here but maybe not.

  • OG56
    OG56 Member Posts: 377

    Just got back from Manhattan to see my BS and she couldn't aspirate because the seroma has a hard covering, she said it would probably just fill back up too! Darn it it is so annoying. We also had a long talk about my future as a high risk patient and I told her if I could just have one MRI that didn't light up then I will take a year just to enjoy and then have my DIEP and she actually didn't try to talk me out of it this time, that kinda of scared me! It made me very sad today to see so many very young women in her office so very ill, just walking in there always puts me close to tears, have I told ya'all lately that I hate BC.

    Well I have to pack so hope every one is having a good week, I probably won't be back on here for a little while.

    Hugs,

    Linda

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919
  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Member Posts: 1,781

    dates? squished grapes?

    Heartandsoul-----where do you live woman? sheesh!!! Yeah...i have a medic alert bracelet tha says no XYZ on the left side but it seems the past few weeks I have been really clumsy with the left side..bought small gloves to do the dishes and forget to wear them....as for the hand knick...no idea what I knicked it on but it sur edidn't take long to turn red! same with the cat tooth knick the week before...but one day of pills seemed to manage it...still, don't take chances ladies...that means wearing a long sleeved shirt on the arm hanging out the window when you drive too! I always get burnt on my driving side...not this year!

  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Member Posts: 1,781

    OG56- 24 hour  rule my dear.....sound slike you could use it today. I brought something to do with me to the dr's office today as I suspected I would have to sit and wait in a full room...and I did. I wrote a book review....just CANNOt sit there and look at everyone...in this case, 95% of them were the elderly..mostly men ( cardiology department)...one young guy and a couple of women...bu tthey were accompanying the older men....sad for a different reason

  • marlegal
    marlegal Member Posts: 1,482

    Eli and Joni, I saw pics of the cruise too, and comments from the ladies about what a great time they had. I'm on a few sites with them so can't say for sure which it was!!!

    OG, I hope the rest of your week is better than the beginning hon.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    I think you'll find they posted on the Beach thread.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Get that oiled up man away from my furniture!!! Yell Ewwwwwwwww, only certain guys like a shaved and oiled chest!!!!!

    Let me tell you how I really feel....................

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 10,618
  • jenn3
    jenn3 Member Posts: 388

    Hmmmm.........some great looking housekeepers!!!!

    RE:  pets and chemicals.  I read an article about a year ago, maybe a little longer that we (pet owners) have to be careful about walking our pets or letting them outdoors, not only in our yards, but the yards of our neighbors because we don't know if the neighbors have recently sprayed or put pellets in the yard for weeds or pest control.  Our pets can get really sick by licking their paws after walking in or on these chemicals.  We've always tried to be careful in our yard, but in all honesty, I would have never thought of the chemicals in our neighbors yards. 

    I hope that all of you had a great Memorial Day weekend and the story of the award given so many years later was beautiful.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    Ooooh, it looks like the search for the "Perfect Man" is on again.

    [For newbies, and sort-of-newbies, way back in (what I call the Renaissance Period) this thread we put together the "Perfect Man."  When the project was all finished, he ended up looking like Gerard Butler (the actor), and was an expert at doing laundry wearing no clothing.  He circulated around to the Mid-Age gals that were feeling low and in need of his "household services," but he went missing months ago...]

    That bring us to the question, chest hair or no chest hair?

                                  

    Barbe, we know how you stand.  I say some chest hair too (but no back hair, please!)

  • barbaraa
    barbaraa Member Posts: 3,548

    Chest hair is good.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    But don't forget, even tho' the search is on, we are open for the usual business of B/C info., support, and channelling any rants you might need get out.  The topics jump around on this thread and by now we are pretty used to it.

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919

    Hmm.  Some chest hair is ok, but not too much. 

    This is ok: 

    This is NOT ok: 

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Member Posts: 7,919

    Hmm.  Some chest hair is ok, but not too much. 

    This is ok: 

    This is NOT ok: 

  • barbaraa
    barbaraa Member Posts: 3,548

    That guy looks like a werewolf!

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    Or, in the oiled/sweaty, shaved category, Christian Bale is a candidate.  As with most of the bare-chested hunks, he can grow his back in as you like.  Same thing with the facial hair...if he's a hottie, he can shave before he pays you a visit. 

                                   

    The only thing, I think Christian might be too uppity to pick up a toilet brush, and he might leave a sweat smudge on the windows.  On the good side, you can have him thin or muscled up hunk, your choice.  Normally rather thin, he put on 100+ lbs. (of muscle, dahlings!) for his Batman role, but had to drop 40 when the costumes would not fit.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    NO 20-SOMETHINGS!  We don't want to have to say a collective "Eeeeeew, I have a son that age!."



  • Ladies the pictures are great. Enjoying the debate. Definitely a little chest hair





    Elimar too funny I was thinking the same thing some of these hotties are looking way to close in age to my son.



  • kal_1865
    kal_1865 Member Posts: 145

    gotta go with our recent idol judge, don't think he will clean, cook or iron but i'm sure he's got someone on staff

    Go to fullsize image

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    If your tastes run to a bit older and blonder...what about this guy?

    Comes with his own work gloves, at least.

  • kal_1865
    kal_1865 Member Posts: 145

    whoa, i think that's richard branson, billionaire...i'll take his money but he has to come with a bag over his face.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    Good eye for the mega-rich, kal!  What?  Did some of you pass on him?  Well, I don't care for blondes myself, but I'd make an exception for Sir Richard Branson.  Interested since he opened his first record store way back; now love his airlines, mobile phones,  and private island.  Who cares if he is too pre-occupied with his dangerous ballooning hobby to picth in and help around the house...he'll let you hire five maids without batting an eye.  And if some balloon tragedy befell him, sure you'd cry, all the way to the distribution of assets hearing.

       

    He cleans up o.k., doesn't he?  (The other pic, he was in a cameo spot for a Virgin Trains ad.)

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    I thought he was houseboy from the OJ debacle!

    Chest hair please & total ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww to that real hairy guy & 20 somethings.

    I'm still holding out for Antonio!

  • Kleenex
    Kleenex Member Posts: 310

    WHAT is going on, ladies?! I leave you unsupervised for a while, and BAM, we're back to oogling beefcake? Shocking. Next you'll be lounging in tubs full of Cheetos again...

    I agree - the werewolf guy is a bit much, but if HE had an island and would let me hire maids (of MY choosing) and possibly a butler, I'd be in...

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Member Posts: 1,572

    Hairy guys need loven too.  Not that he turns me on.  Just saying, lol.

  • elimar
    elimar Member Posts: 5,885

    Oh, there you are Kleenex, like a moth to a flame!  Well, anyone wanting to lounge in a tub of Cheetos (even tho' it leaves a dirty orange ring) may as well go to the source...Al Carey, Pres./CEO of Frito-Lay North America.

    Not sure if he tackles the household chores with or without a shirt, if at all, but you'd never want for another snack food in your life.  Also, he would probably have instant acceptance by your kids. (I missed my big chance to "bump into" him about a year ago when he did some speaking at a college nearby. What was I thinking?)