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In Remembrance of Nicolerod
Sadly, our beautiful nicolerod passed away Friday evening, September 22. She’d asked her friend, member beesy_the_other_one, to let us know. I’m just so sad and heartbroken over the news. 💔
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My oncologist and disability opinion
I was originally diagnosed with 2B (++-) in 01/2014, 8 dose dense chemo, and 45 rads treatments. In 11/2021, I was diagnosed with MBC to pleura. They started my on Faslodex in 11/2021 and added Ibrance 9/2022. I’ve had a treatment failure and now have started Xeloda. The oncologist ran a Guardant 360 and the results…
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How to not be a negative person career-relationship wise?
Hello! Is it possible to resist the urge to punch your boss after he asks "but what about your career aspirations?" when you tell him you are not interested in going up the corporate ladder? Is it possible to dig oneself out of a hole: pushing loved ones away knowing you don't have long to live? Not wanting to meet new…
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tooth extraction
hello warriors. i saw the gallow's humour thread - love, love, love! what a great idea. today's question is: do any of you fine persons in our category have any experience with tooth extraction? i gots a molar that gots to come out, and am researching because at this moment in time, i don't trust my onco. i did a quick…
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osteonecrosis of the jaw
I have just found out that I have osteonecrosis of the jaw due to my Zometa infusions. I am currently taking pain killers, antibiotics and oral rinse. I'm having a hard time finding an oral surgeon who will see me. I'm curious about people's experience with this diagnosis, if treatment has been effective, and what…
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Mammograms and Colonoscopies
I'm only six months in on my stage IV diagnosis but I keep forgetting to ask my doctor about my upcoming 60th birthday and the dreaded colonoscopy. He already told me that I don't need to get mammograms but does that hold true for colonoscopies? (Fingers crossed).
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Seattle -- looking for info./advice re: MBC treatment options/ locations ....
Hi all — my beau and I are likely to be moving to the Seattle area next spring (exact area not decided yet). I am looking for info. / advice regarding where to get MBC treatment and tips re: transportation and other practical advice. I am generally aware of Fred Hutch, but again am looking for practical tips about getting…
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Anxious about mixed scan results
Hi all, ER+ HER2- with mets to lung, liver and bones for 6 years. Been on xeloda for about 4-5 months now and had my first scan, which showed significant improvement in all areas except for two stupid little bone mets. It worked in my lungs, liver, every other bone, aside from these 2 (one spot on hip and one in femur)…
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Bone Pain
I just posted in the wrong group by accident, now I have to explain this all over again, in this group, the right group. My hip/thigh bone and down my leg to my knee is aching. The groin area gets painful and I cannot get up off a chair or go up stairs very well. This started about 2 weeks ago. I just had a Lattimus Dorsal…
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Single or part of a couple? How different is the Stage IV journey?
Pure curiosity. I’m single. It seems as though the majority on here are coupled up but perhaps I’ve misread. Not a pity party, I promise. I just wonder if anyone else is going through this with friends and (adult or younger) children rather than a partner, and how they feel about it?
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Transitioning
This is not an easy note to write, and I am very sorry that it may be a difficult one to read. I've come to the realization that I can no longer contend with the effects of metastatic breast cancer combined with multiple GI issues that prevent me from eating and drinking. I am hoping that hospice will help ease my…
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Any information on having stage 4 Breast Cancer with metastatic carcinoma
Hello, First time posting and hoping to find someone like me or some information about Stage 4 with metastatic carcinoma. Originally diagnosed with breast cancer in 2006. Had Mastectomy, chemo, radiation and Tamoxifen for 10 years. This year, 17 years later after a routine mammo, found 2 masses in my other breast. Last…
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Bone Mets/PAIN
I apologize if there's already a thread on this topic, but I'm still having a difficult time navigating this new format. I've tried the search fields, but it's not directing me to a common thread. Anyway, I'm having a BAD pain day. Bone mets basically everywhere in my chest cavity. RIBS especially, sacrum, etc. I'm on…
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In Memorium - sadiesservant
I wanted to let members know that our sweet, kind sadiesservant passed away on June 1, 2023. I only found out a couple days ago and got confirmation on it before I posted (thank you, chicagoan). I do not know any details, other than she’d been having some additional complications since about the beginning of the year.…
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Operation in 4 stages
Hi all. I know that they don’t do surgery at stage 4, but I know cases when surgeons took it and performed the operation. I don't see similar threads on this forum and would like to hear from you.... Have any of you had stage 4 surgeries? Maybe someone knows such cases?
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Newly Diagnosed liver/bones LOOKING FOR LONG TERM SURVIVORS/HOPE!
Hello there, After 10 years of stage 2 breast cancer, 3 months ago I discovered it has returned stage4 to my bones/liver. I thought it was all behind me… I am finding it so hard to cope & terrified of my future, especially being a mother of a young child. I am hormone positive, Her2- I would love to hear from others with…
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Surgery after “horse is out of the barn
This may be addressed somewhere else but I can't find it. Original bc 2013 with lumpectomy in left followed by 30 radiation. 8 years later shocked to learn MBC in liver. Been treated 19 months and lesions have shrunk and now CT shows some increased activity in that breast and I have been referred now to a breast surgeon…
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Cognition issues
Hello First post, from UK. Stage IV with bone mets, diagnosed 2022, after first multifocal diagnosis in 2018, mastectomy and DIEP. Stable so far with abemaciclib, denosumab and letrozole. Just started on Serena6 trial. I've been so impressed by the ballsiness of this forum and the amount of knowledge and critical thinking.…
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Lymphangitic Carcinomatosis - Can anyone relate?
I was just diagnosed on Friday (7/7/23) with suspected lymphangitic spread (lymphangitic carcinomatosis?) to the lungs after being stable with bone only mets for 3.5 years. I'm a little devastated after meeting with my MO. I'm just wondering if there is anyone else out there living with this? At this point I have more…
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How Many Are We?
The purpose of this thread is to count the number of people lurking or posting on this forum and gather some basic info. We are trying to get a sense of who is out there and add everyone to the collective cyber hug that is this MBC forum. This is not a thread for discussions. The only thing you need to put in the body of…
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All About Doxil
As I haven't seen a specific page related to just Doxil treatment, I thought I'd start one because that is likely my next treatment progression and I've seen little discussion of it here. So, who has been on Doxil? What were the SEs? How did it affect you after the treatment, i.e. how long were you not feeling well or…
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Skin mets
Hi all! I posted this on the Her2 thread but haven't got any responses yet, so I'll try it here. I just got diagnosed with skin mets. Woohoo! I'm Finding out its pretty uncommon. Tumor markers a few months ago were fine, as was all other blood work. Talked with MO about getting very close to that 5 year, take a breath,…
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A Sweet and Precious Time
I just wanted you to know that your tender messages have lifted my heart! I never anticipated such an outpouring of love from people across the world. To realize that numerous lives have been touched by my work brings me inexpressible joy. Thank you so very much for taking the time to reach out, as each and every note is…
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Is there anyone here on Margenza?
I have a friend who is about to start Margenza with the chemo Gemcitabine. She would like to know what she might expect with side effects and how this has worked for you. This is for mets to the liver. Thanks
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Morphine, Bone Pain, and Bone Loss in Metastatic Breast Cancer
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New kid on the block
Hi everyone. I just found out yesterday that breast cancer has returned after being on AI for 5 yrs and has metastasized to my liver. New treatment plan is Ribociclib and Fulvestrant. ☹️
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Bone Mets active again after 12 years
Hi all! Second treatment has now failed after 6 years (first lasted 6 years also) Ibrance/Faslodex/Zometa has done me right for quite awhile. Time to move on to the next option. Sad/scared/pissed/all of the rest of the emotions. Still planning on kicking it’s butt, but hate to have to restart.
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Travera
I may be overly optimistic, but I feel like I cannot share info about Travera enough. Travera testing can help to predict which cancer drugs are likely or unlikely to work for you. HOW AMAZING IS THIS? You might not have to go through the side effects, waiting, anxiety, etc. to wonder if a particular drug is going to work…
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How About A Stage 4 Gallows Humor Thread?
There used to be a gallows humor thread many years ago on this web site. I can't find it. There are many times I still rely on gallows humor in order to cope with my situation. I think my family appreciates it too. I have forgotten so many good zingers during all this time, but I'll start with some tee shirts I bought over…
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New to Piqray
I just started Piqray, 300 mg, 14 days ago. I am a type 2 diabetic. I have been able to manage my blood glucose without insulin. However, this piqray has done a number on my blood glucose. My endocrinologist started me on insulin, and started me at bedtime and before each meal. I go back to the endocrinologist and my…